there you go
you've decided to take a step into my shed of memories
a place where i voice out my feelings
do leave your footprints behind
Have A Nice Day!
Decent Guy
Alvin Wong Wei Mun
6th March 1989
Pisces
Nanyang JC <0619> St.Gabriel's Secondary <4E2> Ai Tong Primary <6L>
<Sunday, November 26, 2006
Reflection... Hmm... after chiong-ing homeworks 4 d past few days, i've completed most of them le... Now only left wif econs, d 1450 words essay assignment, n maths, d 3 school papers holiday homework. As 4 d rest i've finished liao... Yea!!! hahaha... Feelin sooo happy whenever i tink of it... =)
Anw, i've stopped doin homeworks for 2 days le... bcos i went out quite alot of times during d weekend wif my mum n sis as usual... n i oso no mood 2 do them le... I'm somehow sick so doin them man... hahaha... =)
Now... I juz wanna lie back n relax again... Anw i'm rit on track man... I've actually worked out my time management 4 tis holiday mentally le... hahaha... N noe wat? I actually intended 2 finished all my homeworks by next fri... But now... i've alrd completed most of them le... n i'm actually faster den wat i've planned out!!! hahaha... I tink i muz really really thank tt "thing" once again man... hahaha... =)
Tips... Oh ya... 4 those who always hav problem wif ur time management, feel free 2 ask me k! hahaha... Well... here's a tip 4 u all... n i personally feel tt it is very effective! Tell u all ar... 4 me rit... i dun plan my time management by drawing out d timetable... i plan it mentally! Yup! Trust me! Cos i 过来人... n tis is my experience...
If u write out d timetable, u tend not 2 follow it after a few days... Tis is wat i've been thru... So... i plan everything mentally... n it only takes me abt juz 10min 2 do so la! Basically i dun manage my time by d "hour-to-hour" system... I feel tt d more precise u planned, d likelihood of u following d tabletable is low... cos when u dint finish wat u plan 2 do within d time u allocated 4 urself... u'll somehow hav d mentality of "Aiya... heck la... lazy 2 change d timetable..." gradually... u will not follow d timetable...
So... u shld plan something in such a way tt u dun restrict urself... like " i'll finished my homeworks by d 2nd week"... u tend 2 finish on time... 4 me... i wanna spend my time wisely... so everytime when i wake up... i tell myself d things i will do today... For eg... " i'll finished my maths tutorial today"...
But dun plan 1st wat time u wanna do it... u juz hav 2 rmb tt u muz finished maths tutorial 4 today... den u juz do wateva u feel like doin in d day...
Den... tis is d most impt part... there is sure some parts of d day where u feel sian or nth 2 do... tis is d time when u will tink "sian ar... nth 2 do now... wat 2 do"... den u'll rmb tt "oh ya... i need 2 do maths tutorial!"... Yea... den u'll somehow automatically hav d mood 2 do! hahaha... Even if u r fully occupied on a particular day... nvm! Juz tell urself u will do it d next day... cos u r still on time... d deadline is d 2nd week!
See!!! tts y if u dun restrict urself too much... u will feel tt u r still on time... n tis will keeps u goin everyday until u finished all ur works! Of course... sometimes u may exceed d deadline a little... but it's still ok... Yup!!! =)
Anw tis is my tips la... n it works well 4 me... but if u alrd can manage ur time well den tts gd la... i'm juz sharing how i manage my time so well wif those who hav problem managing their time! hahaha... U all can try 4 one week 2 test if it works 4 u!!! Yup!!! =) *Note: Effectiveness not 100% guaranteed! =P*
Relax... So now... i can finally slow down abit le... n i can resume back 2 my usual day of.... (1) waking up late/ waking up early 4 breakfast at J8 LJS wif mum n sis (2) goin out wif my sis/ slackin at home in d afternoon (3) watching tv at nit (4) bloggin/ online chattin wif friends till midnit
hahaha... 迟睡迟起... i tink tts wat we call 恶性循环 ba! hahaha... actually i really wanna sleep early n wake up early de... 所谓“早睡早起身体好”... but i've alrd 养成 tis 坏习惯 le... n it's very hard 2 change la... cos of d biological clock... hahaha... Well... I will really try 2 kick away tis bad habit next week le... be it as difficult as asking compulsive smokers 2 quit smoking... (hahaha... i noe it sounds abit 夸张)... I will 凭着 my 毅力 2 扭转 my biological clock! hahaha... =)
Change? Anw... after wat tc has told me ytd... i reflected upon whether is there a need 4 me 2 change anot... Well... it's really 一言难尽... so i tink i'll juz briefly tell u all wat causes me 2 tink tis way ba... Basically tc told me tt i'm too shy... n always very quiet in front of d dance ppl... tts y it's very difficult 4 them 2 tell or inform me anything abt dance... Well... i tink tt maybe wat tc said is true... but i really hope d dance ppl or anyone can understand me k...
Firstly, those ppl who knows me will know tt i'm not those ppl who r as 外向 as tc or ys de... nor am i those 内向 kind of ppl... i'm more of d average... I'm quite quiet in front of those ppl who i'm not very familiar wif cos i dunno wat 2 say ma... i mean... it's like dun really hav any 话题 2 tok abt ma... cos we dun even noe each other tt well... Ya...
But once i'm familiar wif d ppl, i'll tok quite alot n oso like 2 joke alot la... hahaha... Well... i tink as 4 tis all my friends who noes me 4 some time will definitely noe de... Yup!!! =) So tc... i noe u 用心良苦 want me 2 blend into d dance clique quickly... but i tink tt tis kind of thing needs time one ma... if i suddenly 混进去 i'll feel abit weird la... somemore it's very hard 4 me 2 be in d conversation when d dance ppl r having gals talk la... hahaha... tis is especially true when i'm d only guy la... n it will make me feel abit left out in their conversation... Yup!!! So tc...I finally understand wat u meant by u feel left out in dance last time le!!! hahaha =)
Anw... juz 顺其自然 ba... no hurry man... there'll be lots of opportunities 4 me 2 get together wif d dance ppl in d future wat... n i'm pretty sure tt wif my pleasant character... i will be able 2 click very well wif them in no time de!!! hahaha... Yea!!! =P ...So tc... dun worry k! N oso... i will not change... tis is juz me... n i like myself 4 wat i am now! Yup!!! hehehe =)
Finally... So 4 those ppl... esp dance ppl... if u find me dao or even someone who has 自闭症... hahaha... pls give me or urself some time k! hahaha... I'm sure we can get along well together when we r more familiar wif each other... Yup!!!
Well... most imptly, still hope tt u all can always keep me updated on everything related 2 dance tts happening now k!!! Be it trivial or wat... juz inform me k! Cos i really wanna noe more abt dance... n wanted 2 be part of d family quickly... But ytd after i asked tc den i realised tt there's many things which i dunno la... hahaha... heng ar... luckily i asked... if not i'm still oblivious of everything tts goin on la... hahaha... So ya... so tts all i hav 2 say today... 完。