there you go
you've decided to take a step into my shed of memories
a place where i voice out my feelings
do leave your footprints behind
Have A Nice Day!
Decent Guy
Alvin Wong Wei Mun
6th March 1989
Pisces
Nanyang JC <0619> St.Gabriel's Secondary <4E2> Ai Tong Primary <6L>
<Friday, December 08, 2006
"Calm" Hmm... nth much happened within these few days... n d decent trio appeared 2 be very quiet... Although it may seem tt we r ok... actually we r not! Well... let me tell u d things we were goin thru ba...
tc- freaking pissed wif his dad 4 not lettin him go out... ys- mood swing... me- down wif flu... feelin really really down...
So how??? Remedy???... ... ... ... Guys Talk!!!
Today... woke up at 11+am... n actually d decent trio was planning 4 an outing again... However... tc cannot leave his hse... (FYI... read his blog!)... so... he couldn't join me n ys... Haizzz... sad sia... i can understand how he feels man... But there's little thing tt i can do 2 help him... So i juz msg him in d afternoon n try 2 calm him down... hope he can cheer up... Well... i tink tis is d least tt i can do 4 him ba... Yup!
Advice... Anw... tc... try 2 give ur dad n urself more time ba... really... try 2 communicate more wif him... let him understand u better... let him noe tt u r independent n mature enough 2 look after urself... In tis way... he will gradually trust u n give u more freedom de... Juz 心平气和 de discuss n tok 2 him... Cos from wat i c is... he dun trust u enough... so d practical approach is 2 do things 2 let him trust u... n not juz feelin angry... which is of not much help 2 solve d root of d problem... Ya...
Rmb... d more times u oppose or argue wif him... d more he'll tink tt u r 叛逆... n thus d more he won't let u hav ur own way... So... fan shi dou yao 顺从 ta... let him noe tt u r guai n 自律... Ya... Cos tts exactly wat i've been thru last time... n now both my parents noe tt i am very 自律... n they really trust me alot... they believe i am independent enough 2 take care of myself le!!! Yup!!! =)
Guys Talk @ Amk Well... i met up wif ys at amk library at abt 3pm... As usual... i reached there 1st... hahaha... Anw... i went up to d 2nd storey n try 2 find a table 2 do our homeworks... but all d tables were fully occupied... so i juz chopped 2 sofas... hahaha... I looked 4 nice books while waiting 4 ys 2 come...
Finally... he came... n we had our guys talk again... We tok abt lots of stuffs... Initially, we were feelin depressed... each of us has our own trouble... which i shall not elaborate here... But after pouring out our miseries 2 each other... we really felt much better... n we were sort of cheer up... hahaha... once again... it's guys talk 2 d rescue again!!! =)
Foul Mood... Well... actually i was down wif flu... n add on 2 d 心事 i hav... i was feelin really really really down... so moody tt i dun feel like doin anything... It was much much worse den tt "thing" i had last time... I was feelin extremely unwell n troubled ytd... Unwell bcos of soar throat n flu... Troubled bcos of i kept tinking of my 心事... Haizzz... 2 sum them all up in one word... i juz felt very TERRIBLE!
So... even though i'm sick... i still went out today juz 2 hav guys talk... juz 2 解开 my 心结... Haizzz... Actually we planned 2 do homework de... but in d end we juz kept chattin... hahaha... Nevertheless... we still managed 2 do some works! hahaha...
Towards evening... we finally managed 2 focus on doin our works 4 once... n at abt 6.30pm... we went off le... We walked all d way 2 d hawker center n parted way... He went 2 meet his friends 4 dinner while i headed home... Yup!!!
So here i am bloggin... finally not feelin so moody le... kind of feeling better...
So ys... i guess we gained quite alot from today's guys talk man... we hav finally come 2 a conclusion le... From tis moment onwards... our moods won't be affected... nor will our souls be controlled by ... .... le! Yea! =)