there you go
you've decided to take a step into my shed of memories
a place where i voice out my feelings
do leave your footprints behind
Have A Nice Day!
Decent Guy
Alvin Wong Wei Mun
6th March 1989
Pisces
Nanyang JC <0619> St.Gabriel's Secondary <4E2> Ai Tong Primary <6L>
<Sunday, April 08, 2007
“己所不欲,勿施于人” Meaning: Do not do on others what you do not want them to do on you.
Think... Juz think...
If u hate the feeling of being backstabbed... do u enjoy backstabbing ppl? If u want ppl to share secrets wif u... would u share ur secrets wif others as well? If u enjoy playing jokes on ppl... would u like it when ppl play jokes on u? If u detest attention-seeker... would u choose to be one? If u loathe hypocrite... do u like play-acting?
Many a times... we do things without thinking much and are fallible in our judgements... It is often we realised tt actually what we've done so far can be contradictory after some reflections...
Sometimes... our actions can be very different from our thinkings... we may subconciously do to others the things we do not want them to do to us...
Sometimes... we rant when we are being treated badly by ppl... but think again... do we treat them well in the 1st place??? For every cause... there's an effect...
Somebody told me this... ' Each and everyone of us has an invisible mirror in front of us... what u do to the person will be what u get from the person... If u treat the person well... the person will treat u equally well...'
It is of paramount importance to acknowledge the fact tt we are capable of making mistakes n we are not always right... however... it is equally vital tt we must know our mistakes n rectify them in time... The 'willing to change' attitude is welcome by all... n a quality revere by all...
Think. Think. Think. We may be oblivious of what went wrong for us... But the only solution is to confront the problem bravely and find the root of the problem... Only then can the problem be totally resolved...
Where should i go from here? Keep holding back? Or just let nature takes its course? Deep in thoughts...